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Welcome to Pour Decisions With Candace! Each week, we’re going to go deep into those burning awkward questions you might be too afraid to ask — like tackling real-life awkward moments, dating stuff, weird body issues, how to be an “adult,” and everything in between — and I’ll give you advice in what I think is my truest form . . . under the influence, obviously. I’m not officially qualified for this, but you can trust me. I’m here to be your own personal, brutally honest, and unfiltered Google so you don’t have to sift through weird Reddit threads. Believe me, I’ve been there. And we’re going to get through it all together! Plus, I'm going to have on some of my favorite people, your favorite people, everyone's favorite people as guests to help me get through it, so please let us know in the comments below what and who you'd like to see on upcoming episodes. Be sure to subscribe: New Episodes Every Thursday Candace Lowry on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9Cqtzr7SgbAWlRJLTBRGkA Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecandacelowry Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/candylowry/ Shannon Beveridge on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/flips8trgrl3 Twitter: https://twitter.com/nowthisisliving Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nowthisisliving POPSUGAR Girls' Guide is your guide to living your '20s in style! We cover everything from DIY fashion and beauty, pop culture and comedy, recipes and food trends, celebrity news, and more. Subscribe to POPSUGAR Girls' Guide http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=popsugargirlsguide Find us on Snapchat! Username is popsugar
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Amie In Wonderland (1 день назад)
of course shannon was a tri-delt she’s so pretty
Uncle Nuts (17 дней назад)
How many more fucking letters are you going to add?! You're gay, that's it.
Ruthie Abrams (1 месяц назад)
drinking in letters tsk tsk ;)
Lady H. Wotton (3 месяца назад)
When you’re not from the US and try to figure out wtf 'drinking in letters' means and why everybody is mad about it xD
Lady H. Wotton (3 месяца назад)
Quick question: Is Candace queer or an ally? Just curious.
Megan Gertler (3 месяца назад)
I just found out that Shannon is gay!
Erin Freund (3 месяца назад)
Shannon is so hot, haha I’m hella gay
Bread Crumb (3 месяца назад)
DALLAS REPRESEEEEENT!!!😀
TheBraverMe (4 месяца назад)
Looking up national rulings of Panhellenic sororities on your campus is a great idea! For example, my sorority is a leader in Greek life nationally on LGBTQ issues, and it makes me proud as an ally.
TheBraverMe (4 месяца назад)
Also, I’m straight, and when I’ve been single I’ve always taken a friend (usually a girl) to my date parties or formals because I’d rather take a friend then a stranger who is male. We don’t really care who you bring as your date!
psicofukapus (5 месяцев назад)
U know who's really worth it? L'oreal.
Azure'Rea DiAnna (6 месяцев назад)
I like this a lot. I go to a school of about 600 students that is in a very conservative community. It was really scary for me to go to the school and I had no intentions of being out, but I was outed by friends (with good intentions) and just kind of went with it. Everyone knows everyone on my campus, so being openly gay there were people that knew I was gay and others that didn't, but going through recruitment it never occurred to me whether it should be mentioned. Nor has it ever been mentioned as I've been the recruiter rather than the recruitee. I recently deactivated from my sorority, but I was lucky enough that my negative experience had nothing to do with my sexuality in any way. In fact, I accidentally ended up dating a sorority sister of mine, who I'm still with and is still a member of the sorority. We were advised by girls from another sorority that it doesn't go well, particularly because the largest sorority on my campus has 30 members and the smallest has 12. But we are doing well and I even promised my girl in front of the entirety of my then sisters. But we're very lucky to go to an inclusive school. I should hope that sexuality does not ever come up during recruitment, but I also understand how it might be important to know how the sorority you're consider would react to that news. So that's such a hard decision. I went to a national conference and some of the sisters were homophobic, but others were gay and there were also plenty of allies. Unfortunately homophobia is everywhere so it's hard to escape entirely. But negativity from other sisters can come in all forms. It's important to know that when going greek, all of your sisters will not be your best friend. You may not and probably won't like all of them, but others will mean a great deal to you. But sisters should be respectful of each other because you're all brought together by the same values. Gay, straight, or other.
Serafima Khenkina (7 месяцев назад)
Can somebody explain what Greek life is all about? I never understood why people did it or what it means (I'm not from the US)
ABIGAIL HARGET (7 месяцев назад)
I love Shannon!!
scottiemcnichols (8 месяцев назад)
LGBTQIA?! Holy fuck! How much longer is this acronym going to get? I've managed to keep track of it up to 'Q' but what do the 'I' and the 'A' stand for? It's seriously getting ridiculous at this point.
Jorden Greer (10 месяцев назад)
Letters and drinking? Someone call the risk chair....
Shannon K (10 месяцев назад)
😊
Isla J (10 месяцев назад)
Oh my *god* Candace is so hot what the fuCK
ferncat1397 (11 месяцев назад)
...what IS a sorority? What do you do? What are they for? They don't exist in Ireland!
iris baco (11 месяцев назад)
since when candice is a lesbia. i mean, come on, easy sell, way too many videos about that subject, not that i mind but, she really cant represent it
Snuggle Cult Media (11 месяцев назад)
Awesome topic! I'm a proud Kappa Delta alumna... Two of my sisters are now married with a baby, and I do feel sad now that they were anxious to come out during college. I'm very happy that nationally, Kappa Delta allows trans girls to be initiated into our sisterhood!
Nhorsey12 horses (11 месяцев назад)
You two are so hot.
Mo Soto (11 месяцев назад)
Shannon is so 😍😍💕
Sam Hurley (11 месяцев назад)
she is SPITTING image of haley graham
becsays (11 месяцев назад)
I’m an alum of a sorority and I’m gay and I related to this so hard.
puzzlekuchen (1 год назад)
Thank you for including I and A. I do not see this often.
Tiffany (1 год назад)
I love Shannon! I'm bi and also in tri delta and this video made me so happy
Peyton Flynn (1 год назад)
Candace! Thank you for making these videos on your channel, I really do feel as though they are contributing to decreasing LGBTQIAP+ stigmas.
Sanvers Danvers (1 год назад)
Awwww oh gosh i love Shannon so fucking much😍🔥🤘
Evea Gornall (1 год назад)
More videos with Shannon! She is a gift to us all
Sabrina Victoria (1 год назад)
The FULL name of the community (in my opinion) is l,g,b,t,q,i,a,p,k,PoC (lesbian,gay,bi,trans,Queer,intersexual,Asexual,pansexual,kink,people of colour)
Poperty (11 месяцев назад)
um fuck off with that kink shit what an insult
Joshua Ogunlolu (1 год назад)
Shannon is so beautiful!!!! 😍😍😍
HarMixer What? (1 год назад)
saw shannon and clicked
Korra Asami (1 год назад)
Candace sounds like Cammie Scott, but with a laidback voice. Listen on their conversation, without looking.
sarsurvivor22 (1 год назад)
So I identify as gay and was in a sorority in Kansas, long story short I wish this existed 4 years ago! Basically find those people in your home! You are safe, find your home within your home!
KelliPopcorn (1 год назад)
LGBTQIA...BCDEFGHJKMNOPRSUVWXYZLMNOP
Danielle Carpio (1 год назад)
DALLAS!!!! YAYYA!!! DTX IS THE BEST PLACE
PENNY to FREEDOM (1 год назад)
4:39 - 4:37 that part gets me fur some reason lol
Ivette Trejo (1 год назад)
Shannon's beautiful 😍🤤
Be gone (1 год назад)
Wait what does the IA mean in LGBTQIA?
TwiCaCaX (1 год назад)
SHANNNNN
lilhain (1 год назад)
AYYYYY YAY FOR TRI DELTS BEING THE MOST UNDERSTANDING LOVING PEOPLE (I'm bi and everyone has been so supportive)
TheFemaleNoob (1 год назад)
Damn Shannon is fine!!!
T (1 год назад)
dude that comment about shannon just being the chill one??? my entire life. i try so hard to present and be obviously gay short of painting myself rainbow and screaming it through a megaphone and people are still sometimes surprised when i talk about a girlfriend or something. it's so strange
Kimberly Quinzel (1 год назад)
2:01 that's what people think of me too! HAHA
lindzamuly (1 год назад)
I love that Candice is a DG (ITB!!), but uuuugh it hurts that she's drinking in letters haha
Lea Glasnović (1 год назад)
lgbtqiafickskeifocja how many more letters omfg... it's getting annoying.
Poperty (11 месяцев назад)
then say lgbt+
Rebecca Kožková (1 год назад)
Im here for shannon♥️
Brianna Alexis (1 год назад)
You're not supposed to drink in letters?
Eden Skye (1 год назад)
I'm assuming that it's okay because they're alums. If DG and TriDelt don't have alum organizations, then they don't have a standards committee that they have to answer to because they're not active.
Christy S (1 год назад)
I NEEDED THIS RN TYSM
Millie C (1 год назад)
I'm British and honestly the fact sorority groups exist just makes me laugh idk why it just seems like they only happen in movies omg I didn't realise it's real life
Eden Skye (1 год назад)
Movie sororities are nothing like actual sororities.
Stephanie Eileen (1 год назад)
Shannon is so pretty yet so shy and humble. It's really endearing.
Jecha 03 (1 год назад)
Shannon 😍😍😍
Margaux Cornell (1 год назад)
Yay a fellow DG!! I'm a trans woman and have found the Greek life at my school to be very accepting.
Bla Bla (1 год назад)
shannon is so hot!!
Miss Meggy (1 год назад)
I know the abbreviation is already so long but we seriously need to add a P in there for poly people.
Poperty (11 месяцев назад)
theres already a p in there for pan lgbtqiaP and whats poly? polysexual? theres already bi and pan (the polysexuals) and just use lgbt+ if its too long idk why people flock to microlabels like theyre something different :x youre right there will be too many letters for things that shouldnt be there idk why cishets wanna be lgbt so bad now that its cool
C*NT (1 год назад)
Shannon's face is so dlfjakdnaif😍😍help
das hasguns (1 год назад)
I would sub for pour decisions but not for everything else they post, sorry.
Amanda Ramen (1 год назад)
Thanks for being vocal about being a queer sorority girl! It definitely touches a piece of my own life, and it's nice to relate to somebody.
Leilani (1 год назад)
I'm the chill one and I'm straight...but nowadays my life is about convincing people I'm not lesbian
Poperty (11 месяцев назад)
what a struggle :C
Leilani (1 год назад)
that's me saying that since lgbt-etc is such a small part of the population then people shouldn't be assuming anyone is lesbian or gay etc. even if you're just trying to be nice. it's their job to come out, not everyone else's job to "find out".
Maria S. White (1 год назад)
OK! I went to a religious school too and it didn't make any difference about coming out to my friends or partners from the ones outside. Maybe I just was very lucky! Be brave!!
Regina Martin (1 год назад)
Rush Gamma Rho Lambda! Queer & ally sorority :D
Liddy D (1 год назад)
For pride month it would be really great to see some underrepresented LQBTQIA+ groups represented on Pour Decisions such as asexuality and intersex individuals, especially since they are somewhat always overlooked! Or even doing something for asexuality awareness month which is October ;)
Sam Kav (1 год назад)
being apart of greek life I fell for another girl in my organization and we ended up dating for a little bit. It can work out!!! everyone is usually so excepting
POPSUGAR (1 год назад)
That's awesome!
R Mo (1 год назад)
what does the IA mean in lgbtqia? i swear in a few years there will be all letters of the alphabet in the name
SmileyCeci (4 месяца назад)
Nothing wrong with adding letters, it just means we're making it a more inclusive community.
Erin A. (1 год назад)
R Mo I think it's intersex and asexual
Katie Bigelow (1 год назад)
Candace!😍
Ivy Souter (1 год назад)
She's a DG! Ahh sistah!
chey money (1 год назад)
They actually say that the Greeks used to admire the same sex couples because they thought their love was stronger 💯💯💯
SmileyCeci (4 месяца назад)
That's not exactly why, men thought themselves superior to women so they married women for reproductive purposes but had sex with male lovers because they considered it to be superior and more "pure". I think it's more of a hierarchy and class situation than admiration for LGBTQIA people in general. I doubt lesbians were as highly esteemed.
XTL (1 год назад)
Squeezie_B Came here to say this! Greeks didn't think very highly of women :(
Natalie deWitt (1 год назад)
LITB Girl!!!! Love you ⚓️
randylud (1 год назад)
Besides being completely out in left field, your presentation is filled with words that do not belong. Think about what you are saying and practice by recording yourself and then listening to it. The word "like" has very specific meaning and the multitude of uses in your vids is completely wrong and exasperating. Before long, all I hear is the word "like" over and over again so many times that I really have no idea what your point is. Being gay is your choice, nothing else. The new acronym LGBTQIA does not change anything nor make sense of your stated condition. There is male and female and that is the end of the story. Get your head out of your arse and live as you were intended.
Eden Skye (1 год назад)
Gay isn't a gender....
Nikki Bock (1 год назад)
in my sorority, one of the sisters once tried to pass a rule that wouldn't allow our members to take other females to events and it made me so happy to see how adamantly everyone else opposed it. i feel so lucky to be a part of a chapter that is so accepting and inclusive.
muffin and love (1 год назад)
I love Shannon and I am greek
Gilly Jack (1 год назад)
yes sorority girls!! Yes LGBTQIA support!
maodci (1 год назад)
I saw Shanon, I clicked! Easy.
Shyla Nishimura (1 год назад)
Is it just me or is it weird seeing Candice and Shannon together
Maltese Rawr (1 год назад)
Shannoooooooon love you bro
Ali G. (1 год назад)
OMG i'm from San Antonio
Andrea Chevrette (1 год назад)
Yeah, they thought I was the chill one too hahahaha!
Kass Gal (1 год назад)
-"She is the chill one'' -''Do you hear what you are saying?? LIke that's me being gayy! '' Haha Shannon i can sooo relate! lov u
Lauren Meyer (1 год назад)
My sorority big got married to our fellow sister and it was beautiful how supportive everyone was in the sorority. It also made it easier for me to be queer in my sorority since my big was queer too.
Fuck You Homophobic asshole (1 год назад)
lesbehonest i only clicked the video because of Shannon . 😁
Hana Bryanne (1 год назад)
its just lgbt, babe
SmileyCeci (4 месяца назад)
Technically no, we want to be inclusive and not exclude non-binary, intersex, and asexual people from the community. We can say LGBTTQQIIAAP or LGBT+ if you want it to be shorter.
Totally not Copen (1 год назад)
Hana Bryanne I mean, that a shorter acronym...
Shariq Torres (1 год назад)
Tri Delts? I have 😉
Youtube is You (1 год назад)
sup with the lightening. Their neck looks like a bodybuilder, just fucking weird mate.
That kid (1 год назад)
"Thats just me being gay..." mooddd💛😂💛😅💛
Mollie Letheren Smith (1 год назад)
Candace looks so gorgeous!
roar roar (1 год назад)
Gross, did one of you go to TCU? #SicEmBears
Natalie Sadler (1 год назад)
Omg I'm a DG too! But I joined Delta Gamma my freshman year and I was so nervous about being gay. On National Coming Out Day, I posted a coming out pic on Instagram and I received so much support from my sisters! Since then, I've been openly out, I talk to some sisters about it, and even brought a girl to my semiformal! My sorority was beyond accepting and I'm so proud to be gay and a part of Greek life! Plus DG is super cool because it's one of the only sororities that had an anti discrimination policy (so any woman, including trans people that identify as female, can join!)
Amanda Lewis (10 месяцев назад)
Gay DG over here too! I came out during our chapter retreat my junior year. Everyone was so amazing about it! ITB
mardytheparty (1 год назад)
I'm a DG too. I just came out last year, towards the end of my 10 year stint as an adviser. Seeing the change in DG with their discrimination policy over the years made me confident I joined the right house.
Anel Myrza (1 год назад)
Ahahhahaha I too was considered cool chill one when I was closeted
Boba Fettuccine (1 год назад)
Shannon made me gay
Kari Sorenson (1 год назад)
My college had an All-Gender Greek Org, which was where all the LGBTQIA people rushed. There was an emphasis of calling it just an All Gender Greek Org to get rid of the binary system of sorority/fraternity.
Larissalove55 (1 год назад)
Kari Sorenson what college? that sounds so cool
Lex W. (1 год назад)
"They're my sisters. They're my sisters. They're my sisters" 😂😂😂😂😭DEAD
beccaliterally (1 год назад)
I know we can't drink in our letters in my organization......
fancifulimpression (7 месяцев назад)
beccaliterally my first thought was this and I kind of hoped they would have made like a mocktail or something. I also think they could have talked more about Greek organizations that have been formed specifically for and by lgbt+ people such as Delta Lambda Phi and Gamma Rho Lambda to name a few and local organizations. That said I know this is more about their own experiences so I can understand that.
HELM4499 (10 месяцев назад)
same i was shook when i saw this
Katherine Lorene (1 год назад)
beccaliterally lol I was cringing so hard at that too. But I'd say it's a bigger deal if you're active
jpage813 (1 год назад)
beccaliterally That's all I could think about! Haha That was definitely a huge no-no in my sorority.
Nikki Bock (1 год назад)
beccaliterally i'm assuming they're alum so it's alright for them. i mean, what's gonna happen? they get called to standards? 😂😂
Sara Moncada (1 год назад)
Love the idea of the video, and support this topic 100 percent but the drinking in letters really works against all of us collegians trying to keep this under control for our chapters and sets a bad example.
Eden Skye (1 год назад)
Well that's the whole concept of the show. Are they going to forgo that simply because of the topic? No. They're adults of the drinking age, and alum, I don't see the problem with them drinking in letters. It's not like they're going out and getting sloppy drunk, they're in a controlled environment drinking legally and responsibly.
Bhagyashri Sawant (1 год назад)
shannon :)
Mattie Stricker (1 год назад)
At the begging I heard freshman year is scary especially if you are RUSSIAN 😂😂😂😂 I had to re listen to it like 4 times
bubblegumplastic (1 год назад)
I'm so happy i found this channel. the content is invariably fresh and kind and informative. having a great time watching your videos!
ResistingTheLies (1 год назад)
"informative" wow
POPSUGAR (1 год назад)
Aw thanks! We're glad you found us too :)
Claire Ferrell (1 год назад)
How about you stop generalizing "Greek life" and trying to decide if they're homophobic or not? Because Greek life includes a very broad group of people who are all different.
reem930 (1 год назад)
THIS IS SO AMERICAN
Katie Holmes (1 год назад)
Yes I agree
Jinxes Vixen (1 год назад)
Googling it up cause it just keeps on adding 🤔

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