Women feel sexually attracted to men who display personality traits and behaviors that mark them out as being the sort of guy who could potentially survive, thrive and prosper well in life.
For example: A man’s confidence will trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman because it suggests (to her attraction instincts) that he might be a good survivor and may be able to protect her and take care of her.
However, a man’s insecurity turns a woman off because it suggests that she might need her to take care of him and protect him.
Additionally, it suggests that he might not be able to get his way in the world and may be overlooked for promotions or favor, which will then make survival harder for the both of them.
Attraction is an instinctive reaction that men and women have to each other.
A man's initial attraction to a woman is mostly based on her being a healthy, good looking woman of breeding age.
It's a bonus if she is also a nice woman, easy-going and so on, but the initial attraction doesn't look for that.
A man's initial attraction is all about finding a good place to plant his seed, even if he consciously doesn't want to have children.
His instincts are driving him to ejaculate inside of a woman.
However, a woman looks for different things in a man and isn't just looking for a random guy to blow inside of her.
Her instincts look for a guy who would be a good survivor and may potentially be able to create a good future together with her.
So, if you want a woman to want you sexually, you need to display the kinds of personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women (i.e. traits that mark you out as a guy who could potentially survive and thrive).
Watch this video for more info:
A lot of guys assume that the only way for men to make women want them sexually, is to make a lot of money, spend years in the gym or buy the woman loads of gifts and try to impress her in that way.
Yet, in reality, most women are very easy to attract and all it usually takes is 1-2 minutes of conversation where you display attractive traits and she will interested in you in a sexual way.
When she is attracted, all you need to do then is guide her through what I call The Flow and she will be yours:
I'm a meditator, I spend a lot of time thinking and contemplating. Some people spend a lot of time reading or watching tv, but i like to contemplate for hours off of little bits of what i see on tv or read. This lesson made me feel good because you said, point for point, what I already theorized myself.
As a woman I can confirm this is all true. If you realize you are noticeably more intelligent and stronger emotionally, mentally and possibly even physically than a man it's not going to last. Any decent woman doesn't mind carrying her partner through tough times, say a bereavement, but in day-to-day living we want to be your girlfriend or wife, not your mother or therapist. However I do think that many strong, independent women have forgotten or perhaps never learned how to let a good man take care of them, and good men enjoy doing that. I was one of those women, and all I did was attract lame men who couldn't get their act together - I was cursed by my own capabilities and independent streak, and I know many other women who are the same.
Sick of these dud relationships I did a lot of research on where I was going wrong, so when I first met my fiancé I let him do things for me that I'd never have expected of a man before. On first sight he wasn't my physical ideal, but he was tall, intelligent, thoughtful, had a warm and genuine smile, mischievous eyes and a really sexy voice, which was a good start! I soon learned he is confident and capable, brave, has a good job, is comfortable with himself, also that he is great at cooking and dancing, and is rightly proud of his abilities. I saw him light up when he helped me out or did nice things for me, his manliness shone through and I quickly found him very attractive. Now I adore him more than ever and for me he is the sexiest man in the world :-D
I need your help .... I have a crush on this girl and I have manged to meet up with her on Friday and we either go to a party or just talk a walk along the river together. In which situation is it more likely for things to go a step further seeing as I would really love to be together with her in a relationship. Please let me know your suggestions and any advice is very welcome.
P.s. I was thinking of gently taking her head looking into her eyes then telling her how beautiful they are and slowly go for the kiss . Any changes or better ideas would be super .
This is the fucking truth I've been looking for my whole life. Every other video has been just bullshit, but this really hits the solid core I've been struggling with for years always thinking there's something wrong with me, but now I know what it is. Thanks so much Dan Beacon for speaking the truth. Why don't girls tell us any of this stuff? Are they too embarrassed? Or is this all unconscious for them they don't even see it?
Yep dude u really spotted the true point..... Plz upload more videos.... For having good relationship and how to avoid cute quarrel which jst spoils the mood.... And after that we both cry holding each other and then everything is alright.....
One question I have is if a guy has already started to exhibit characteristics of a beta male, such as self doubt and lack of confidence to a woman he is interested in, has he ruined all chance with that specific woman? Or can he later build confidence and come back in a couple months and try to seduce that woman again successfully? Thank you so much for your fountain of knowledge, Dan! You are like the older brother or uncle I never had lol.
wish i knew this before i got married, also many times i could have gotten laid and did not realize it until days or even weeks later which really sucks. i was this guy you speak of, i was confident, made them laugh and was strong but my issue was i did not see the signs that they wanted to sleep with me. one time i missed out on a 3 way and then another time i could of slept with this one girl who had a perfect body great breast andnice legs. she even told me to stand behind her and feel her breast from behind and then said i really need to go under her shirt and feel them, god i was so stupid back then
9:26 u can see how hard he is trying to control his laughter. I cracked up right there lol, such a good talker. alsso that part where he says the guys who are trying to be friendly, it's more like a brother sister relationship loooooooooooooooooooool ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh!
Bro!!!!! thanks for the vid, this is so true man... i didnt know about it "Primal instincts". My girlfriend was starting to reject me sexually, but i did what you said, I started talking to her with confidence, and without self doubt, looking at her in the eyes... and guess what she initiated us having sex... she wanted me bad!!!! thanks bro!!!! it works 100%
As a female I'm going to say nail on the head right there. Of course there is the exception to the rule. My friend is the exception and she is just desperate. I am the tule. I look for security in a man and by that I mean protector and provider. Funny etc.
A friend of mine started to workout in 2011 only to attract girls... Now it's 2017, he looks great and ripped but haven't seen him talking with a girl since ages...
I'm an average male, early 30's athletic look, never been in a gym my whole life, tall, sociable, bearded, grounded and I'm banging a hot 25 years old blondie from a pharmacy store (it all started with an eye contact).
-Having big guns doesn't mean shit these days, women want men and not a ripped peacock. If you want to impress a 16-17yo teenage girl, then go for it.
Great example! Thanks for sharing! BTW: To other guys reading along with the comments - there's nothing wrong with working out. It's just that it doesn't mean crap to a woman if you can't make her feel attracted when you talk to her. You've got to be able to turn women on during a conversation or interaction. That's what matters the most. Women are so damn easy to pick up when you have those skills. So damn easy.
Finally a scientific example of the Law of Attraction that is genuinely helpful to others. This information will help distinguish between couples the best way to Relate to other people, not just men. It all comes down to being a good Bloke who shows interest and nature will take it's course. Well done Mr Bacon.
F*#*! I don't want to be friend zoned. I'm the type of guy who needs to know the girl first before I dive in. I'm working on a relationship right now and it isn't making any headway. She is neutral and only smiles when I do. What's the best way to approach this for a shy guy like me?
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