I have a question. Most people indicatethat they prefer to be alone because of fake people. Sime even have pets, hobbies or busy life by doing errands in general. Some people like to be alone in big crowds. Some people have a choice and they choose to be alone for other reasons. But suppose a person who had three jobs and drinks everyday to the point of being drunk. They soon find themselves alone with no friends and no job. My question is is that person a loner or lonesome?
Loners enjoy their company more than anyone else's. People never fail to disappoint. I am married but cherish my alone time. Loners are often narcissists and self centered but can also be great people.
On point. I'm a loner. I have a small circle of friends. If I do spend time with other people, they're either my family or close friends. Mostly, I prefer to be by myself. For me, I prefer straight answers. So, if I ask a friend a direct question, and they beat around the bush, they are no longer my friends. I also don't like negativity. If a person is around me, but continuously makes excuses why he or she is not good enough, I most likely end that friendship. If I say I'm going to do something, I do it! I expect that level of confidence from my friends as well.
Perfect and so true...Had a meeting at my church and was the first to arrive. Sister Marita said, I see you're alone. I said, Sister Marita you know we're never really alone and it made her smile this big smile. Some people don't understand the beauty of being alone. Co-workers complain about their lives and I listen but I can tell you it bothers them because I seem to be at peace...I'm very cautious about who I let into my Life...
Yep 100% accurate! When I was just a lil tyke in the 70’s, I couldn’t wait for my parents to go to the store.... so I could be alone. I thought it was just so I could have more time to play my video games lol... but even in later adult years, I found myself avoiding crowds, and not caring to hang in the (clicks & groups) everyone else huddled in during school. I was always the odd one out... not wanting to connect. Even today... I don’t care to have people around me. I have 1 or 2 sorta-like friends... but that’s it. I find that people pretty much suck AND ARE ANNOYING as hell!!
I don’t wanna hear their sexcapade stories, I don’t want your weed, or your liquor, I don’t dance, I’m never going to your party, I couldn’t give a damn about which team won, and I don’t think it’s cool that you are cheating on whoever and am not going to give you props for getting away with it, or for being a (player) smh. Nor do I wanna hear about Trump, Obama, or any of your lame CNN pre-programmed political views. Just those rules alone will eliminate 98% of people from your life! lol ok... 😋
Although I'm in a relationship, my alone time is priceless. As a staunch atheist, the only thing to believe in is what's in the mirror. I believe the world would be a better place if more people did the same. So there!
I am a loner with Asperger's Syndrome in Worcester,Mass. My late Mother wanted me to have a relationship with a Lady,I'm Straight,I've been asked by another Man to Marry His Wife if anything happened to him,I said Yes!
This is me 100% and I'm 72. I have always told my friends I enjoy my own company but I'm not WALLED IN by my feelings. I enjoy having several close friends. Friends that can allow me to bounce ideas on or friends I can help when they need me. But never call me "dearie"! I think that is so phony. And those that do that to me get the cold shoulder. I'm never lonely yet lately I'm almost always alone with my 5 cats. I don't mind it. I have plenty of hobbies to keep me busy. God helps me to stay in balance because I have Him.
I am a loner, although I wasn't always this way. It's just that over time, people in general are insincere and always seem to have an agenda. If I were able to find a mate who I resonate with (and I will), it will be a fantastically strong union.
I can see most of this as being applicable to me, except for the time aspect. As a loner I do appreciate good friendships, but I am never desperate enough to just pick anyone as a friend. I don't want to have to change myself or my values in order to be accepted by someone else. If I hang around someone, where I don't feel like I am free to share my beliefs, then I feel like my personality is being oppressed. I want to have friendships, where I am free to share myself in truth and truly bond with another person. It's better to be alone, than try to maintain false friendships. I desire to be understood and if I am going to change as a person, I want to always change for the better. I appreciate rational and deeply analytical people, who have a love of the truth.
I love being alone. It doesn't mean I'm avoiding the world and socializing. I just prefer being in my own company than others. I came into this world alone and I will live life being comfortable when I'm on my own, and I will leave this earth on my alone. I don't depend on anyone but myself. I have a very small circle of friends, don't get me wrong. I never let my friendships extend to like 10 people, I can't cope with so many relationships like that. I like to be In control of who comes in and out my life. Fake friends usually are hard to spot at first for me. Which is a shame because if it'd spotted them quick enough I'd kick them out my life sooner.
Honesty I AGREE and I also DISAGREE with certain points of view from this video, yes I AGREE that loners are unique individuals on the surface HOWEVER it's what's conspiring below the surface that should raise eye brows, this video only addressed the good behavior side of being a loner, but there are individuals who have been forced to be a loner for reasons unknown to friends and family, and if they've become a loner out of FEAR such as fear of people or crowds, fear of public places, or even fear of society itself then there attitude, character or even personality maybe psychologically impaired or permanently paranoid!
I need to be alone for a while, so I can work on myself. I had bad relationship experience's. Fake people. Friends who come and go. I'm open to meet somebody later on. Not because I'm lonely or desperate. But because that person and I, have many things in common. Until then, I'm happy with bieng by myself.
It’s always me and my four walls. No animals, no friends. Just me all the time. Never go out. Only open the window to breath the fresh air. Some would call me weird. Antisocial, a recluse. I will come out time to time and will have a nice conversation with you if I feeeeeeel like it. It’s rare that I do. I’m not antisocial. Just social when I wanna be or have to be. I don’t have a social media. Weird for someone my age. I’m private and don’t trust anyone. I used to be different until people broke me. Hurt me. Crushed my heart and soul. I’m happy alone. I’m grown comfortable with it and grown to love it day by day. People think I’m stupid, special needs maybe. Because I’m quiet when around them. I don’t talk. I have ears and a brain. I hear and understand them perfectly. But they don’t hear me even when I’m silent. Sometimes, no message IS a message. Maybe I don’t like you. Maybe I don’t trust you. Maybe both. Maybe I m just not in the mood to speak to you. You just take it personally. When I bump into people. I check my pockets and my jewelry. I look back behind me when I walk even if no one is there and it’s obvious. Not that im paranoid. I’m just smart. Maybe one day I turn around and there is someone there. I just watch my own back for thieves and killers. Call me paranoids you want but see who survives a knife to the back between the two of us. I practice with my mentor on the ship for self defense just Incase these events occur. What’s very true about someone who is alone. I can smell your fake scent.
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