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I have a question, I am in love with one guy who is older than me 15 years. And I don't know what to do, I love him, I'm 18 and he is 34, in future if he wants to be with me, be in relationship, I don't know what to say. My parents won't be happy, because he's older than me. Can someone give me advice please?
If each of you are happy than be happy. 15 is way to young you need to be over 18. I meet a Lady I feel in love with the first time I saw her and what I love about her is what I see in her and how she lets it shine. The real problem are with people who go around criticising them I think these people do this to just get everyone stirred up into trying to get people listen to there gossip if your around these self righteous take her by the hand and LEAVE THEM RIGHT AWAY. Be around people that will lift you up not tear you down it sucks to see what these people are doing to outhers like the saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it!!!
I think wrong with different age relationship. Why Why Iam be careful love somebody .mary cosmo Dialoding from padada Philippine and I loved each other. We were close to getting married. Last time I met her she was planning to work in Saudi Arabia. She told me if she had a small business, she would not have to go to Saudi. I helped her to open a small business. Her business was going good till last November. And then she found European boyfriend. And then last December her business went down. I didn't notice what happened till this April. I loved her kids so much. I supported them. And then one of her relatives told me that she has a boyfriend 60 years old, who was European a retired army guy. Then I told Mary, but she didn't like it. She she sent her new sexy pic’ told me if I do not sent her money what I going miss her’ She emotionally and mentally damaged me because she was living with this guy 5 months or more and I didn't know it. She was honeymooning with this guy all the time, so she was also hurt me with mean words. But I learned from my experience: when your age is different from the some not all girl, when you're older, she is interested in money -not love! And I'm hoping to share my experience so that nobody makes the same mistake I did.
I’m 50 he is 32. We had been married previously. We have a child each . Mine is already grown and independent. His is preschool age .
We can’t have children together and we are ok with that . In the even of us changing our mind, we can adopt and I’m ok with that.
First we need to make sure his child receives proper upbringing and education. We would like to travel so it is much easier with one child . We are still in a dating stage.
So far the age gap seems to be not visible . His family is very fond of me and mine, well, not as much . This is where I’d need some help with how to talk to them and understand that I would like a younger man in my life.
Im 20 hes 42 and we get along so well, but hes so insecure about his age that broke up with me because he feels like I should find someone my age something that I don’t want he makes me happy but he just doesn’t get it any help?
As I'm contemplating a relationship with a huge age difference I found your video gave me a lot of food for thought. My friends who are psychologists seem very interested in this but definitely not disapproving. I have already discussed things with the other person such as children and how I'm no longer capable. Other issues regarding a young attitude to the world I seem to have been practicing already as I've been consciously avoiding the parental aspect - I don't want to be a dad again. However to be realistic I feel there will be things that occur and a lot of understanding and patience will be needed. I have exchanged views with younger people before when I was an older student - the young ones advised me academically and I helped them cope with domestic and administration emergencies. It was all very rewarding.
It matters if both are of legal age..but I'm mature man..dated woman older, my age, and younger..its the person's maturity level, not their age..some younger woman were far more mature mentally, morally than woman my age of older..
Age doesn't matter to me but like the saying goes what if I can't give him children because I no that all men dream about is having a daughter of his own but specially a son to follow in his footsteps and to carry on his name what then and it hurts me badly mmm okay
You might want to check into whether or not you meet your state's age of consent laws. Age of consent varies from state to state. My suggestion is get your education completed then if you still have interest in the boy you have your heart set on, then go for him. By that time both of you will be more wiser.
Of course age makes a difference. Suppose one day, a 50 year old man decided to change from his 50 year old fiancee to a 20 year old new fiancee. Do you think his life will play out the same after that change? Use common sense people. It affects things like retirement, kids (a 50 year old female likely cannot have kids), energy levels.... People that say age makes no difference are stupid.
I found it very lonely being married to someone far younger than me. We couldn’t reminisce about the era I grew up in, I found myself constantly drawn to women my own age, which ultimately destroyed the marriage. Be careful out there, don’t jump in too quickly.
Age gaps doesn't matter any relationship...
Mostly important part is love,understanding, caring each other... I m in a relationship with someone..He's 40 and I m 25..
I don't care what people says...I m happy with him...
I don't think this is the best advice. Age is tied to life phases and when those differ between spouses disaster is inevitable. The younger, the more adventurous while older people aim to settle. Woman older than their spouse by 5 years or more should prepare for disaster once she hits her 50's and the man is still in his 40's or 30's.
Generally in some traditions .If 1/2 the age of a man plus 7 total is the age of that girl will be perfect at any time !!! For example if you love at 30 then 15 + 7 = 22, If you love at 34 then 17 + 7 = 24 will be perfect !! If 40 that is 20 + 7 = 27 will be perfect ! It is because Female potency with male is calculated in such manner !!
The age difference becomes an issue in the older years. It can be odd when you your whole view of life come from different generations. I'm now looking at hubby dying and I will be left alone in my 50s. It's just now that I am realizing this. It scares the crap out of me. He is also a senior citizen and acts like it. I'm not there yet and don't want to act like it. We have been married 20 years and it's just now that I think I shouldn't have done this, no matter how much I did and do love him. I'll have 30+ years of being too old to remarry and being alone.
I'm not going to date anyone who acts like dating outside of your age group is against the law. Some of you might have had your heart set on that one person you wanted to date only to get accused of trying to ruin her life no matter who it is. Just because of an age difference.
My thoughts: the cancer of modern feminism is demonising older guys who prefer younger women. Making their perfectly normal (from a biological standpoint) preference to be some kind of pathology or sexual deviation. Ignore them- let them stew in their jealousy. Notice how most of these feminists are ugly- both in terms of appearance and personality? No man in the right mind would want them. In some ways, I pity them as they are brainwashed into hating men (modern feminism's purpose has got nothing to do with 'equal rights'; rather it is all about pitting white/European women against their own men). I think Laci Green is the only attractive feminist out there. I'd totally date her if she was not so indoctrinated!
I cannot stand age gaps. I mean, if you're with the partner that you want to be with for the rest of your life, it doesn't make sense to always have it in the back of your mind when one of you passes before the other.
Mary dialoding from padada Philippine and I loved each other. We were close to getting married. Last time I met her she was planning to work in Saudi Arabia. She told me if she had a small business, she would not have to go to Saudi. I helped her to open a small business. Her business was going good till last November. And then she found a Norwegian boyfriend. And then last December her business went down. I didn't notice what happened till this April. I loved her kids so much. I supported them. And then one of her relatives told me that she has a boyfriend 60 years old, who was Norwegian, a retired army guy. Then I told Mary, but she didn't like it. She she sent her new sexy pic’ told me if I do not sent her money what I going miss her’ She emotionally and mentally damaged me because she was living with this guy 5 months or more and I didn't know it. She was honeymooning with this guy all the time, so she was also hurting me with mean words. But I learned from my experience: when your age is different from the girl, when you're older, she is interested in money -not love! And I'm hoping to share my experience so that nobody makes the same mistake I did.
That's because the cancer of modern feminism is demonising older guys who prefer younger women. Making their perfectly normal (from a biological standpoint) preference to be some kind of pathology or sexual deviation. Ignore them- let them stew in their jealousy. Notice how most of these feminists are ugly- both in terms of appearance and personality? No man in the right mind would want them. In some ways, I pity them as they are brainwashed into hating men (modern feminism's purpose has got nothing to do with 'equal rights'; rather it is all about pitting white/European women against their own men). I think Laci Green is the only attractive feminist out there. I'd totally date her if she was not so indoctrinated!
As long as both are adults, not anybody else's business..but I find it much more healthy if the man is older and more together because girls mature way faster than guys her own age mentally also..so what they are truly looking for is in a more mature man..now much older woman with younger men seem to be just based on sex and they all burn out fast and onto the next..
Age only changes the way people see you, the youngest have lived less painfull life experience and will see you in a « no problem » way and will be more likely to take time to see and apreciate the good in you. Older people think in a problem solving way wich too often they THINK involves money because most people solve all their problems by paying other instead of searching for solutions, so they look at you in a biased perceptive way of searching in you the solution to all of their problem, not nowing that no one can solve them but themselves😜
Know a broad who married an old man 22 years older than herself. The reason: He was a millionaire. If you've go the money, you get the honey, it's as simple as that. Broads are ass- - - - - today. Theirs not one of today that's worth it. Broads have been trouble since the begining of time and will continue to be trouble until the end of time it's self. Broads are ALL jerketts today.
It does matter big time to some degree, I am tired of younger men and would like to date someone be older that done the work, made the mistakes, kids are certain age, been there, done that!!!!! Add to this....A person that knows limitations and isn't always in your business, spying on you for know good, will not let go, tries to ruin your reputation and gets mad and claims you are trying to ruin their etc....
Max to max 7 or 8 years difference is acceptable...cz dt younger person will face trouble nd dt too a lot.. regarding dt person's wife , family,children...each N every person ...der lives ..at stake...
Age is not an issue unless it’s falling in the two categories:
1. A woman cannot be in a relationship below the age of 20 years.
2. A man cannot be in a relationship below the age of 25 years. Men mature 5 years slower than women. Ideally a man should be in a relationship with a woman 5 years or more his age at all times provided his over 25 years old.
Technically for all genders over 25 years old can start a relationship with any gender of any race or age regardless their age gap - no problem..
Yup it’s does matter from Same age difference to 10 years difference
I prefer Both older guy and same age guy that’s it
My parents are both 10 years difference and still together for 30’s years I still love them
I think more than 10 years older or younger is a money or sex based relationship. Not to say that love is a factor in a small percentage. Personally it’s hard for me to think some adult will one day marry someone that’s a baby now. Btw both of my parents remarried someone 11 years younger and it works. I was young when they did and had fun with my step parents. But if I were older and my stepparents were same age as me, I would be very uncomfortable.
Age affects us physically and emotionally. As we grow older, we continue to learn new things in life, like learning how to deal with different situations. Maturity is one trait that we develop as we age, which is the most important aspect one should have when in a relationship.
I like this video. From the age group is legal then it should not matter from that point a view & some women can conceive children at a later age.
True Love, soul partnership, compatibility is what counts/matters. Never allow age to stop or block you from being with your true love.
In my experience, there are some women with an older age and look way much younger than her younger partner or look equally the same. My ex-husband is 3 years younger than me & looks way much older than me.
Now that I am single, I have guys approaching me half my age thinking I am their age group. When I tell them my age they do not believe it and they stand there looking at me lost.
I try to make people aware some people are just slow developers when it comes to aging, it is all about their DNA & trying to take care of oneself.
I totally agree, one should never use age to say one is wiser or should gain more clout/control in a relationship. A relationship is a partnership/fair/equal. There should be no bosses in a relationship, only respect & higher over standing of each other.
Both your time should be spent nourishing each other, bringing the best out of each other, not scoring, that is devaluing your partner and bound for failure.
Age is just a number. Love doesnt notice age.Simple as.People the same age can b together for a while then split up the same with age diference.Lots of people are not together forever so just enjoy the happiness with each other.
age gaps is more common these days especially women being older. I think its only fair since man have been with much younger woman for decades...woman have the right to love no matter how younger the man is if he is an adult. Love and happiness is whats important.
That is something I would never do or condone. The problem with child marriages is that it takes away the child's right to grow up naturally. I won't date or marry any girl that is under educated and underage.
I'm 30 divorced and 2 kids. I've been talking to girls 18-21 and they are the most stubborn and picky ever. I know that they're still young and can find someone better without kids or married before...I know I know....smh
I married a Romanian woman 24 years my junior. We had a wonderful relationship for 6 years; we made love almost every night. But it turned out that money was her true love and she left to go to California to seek her fortune. Sadly, it hasn't happened for her.
Sorry to hear that but unfortunately some or most young girls from Romania do that . Money are their love, I am from Romania also I am older if this makes any difference but I believe in love always, I never been a materialistic person, but so far i don't have the ,,real love as I like to call it .. in conclusion life is difficult and strange but to find a good person is nearly impossible, and if u find it u must hold it with your both hands .
thats not true at all. i went out with several women much younger
and money never got brought up at all. when is our culture gonna stop
basing things on movies, media, what the neighbors or just what
Age really make no difference in relationship.But for me the woman should not be older than the man.Not because he is immature or not wise.It is true if the age difference is very big like 20 yrs.How do you think this older lady is going to function normally with a young man who is 20 yrs her junior.Just my humble opinion.
The max age difference shouldnt be more than 7-8 years, it can be bigger in special cases if 2 people are in love, but Ive unfortunately seen alot of pedos in my country's army that make all kinds of excuses to why it would be okay to have a relationship with a girl 15-20 years younger. On top of this most of these assholes already are in a relationship or have a family.
The ideal is definitely if you find a partner who is within that 7-8 year range in difference.
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