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Pearl Ford (5 hours ago)
Age is just a number. Love doesnt notice age.Simple as.People the same age can b together for a while then split up the same with age diference.Lots of people are not together forever so just enjoy the happiness with each other.
Skinnyman 02 (8 hours ago)
I have a question. I live in the UK and I'm 15 years old and I have a crush on my next door neighbour who is 13 years old. I am about 2 and a half years older than her. Is it ok for me to ask her out?
aline Isabel (12 hours ago)
age gaps is more common these days especially women being older. I think its only fair since man have been with much younger woman for decades...woman have the right to love no matter how younger the man is if he is an adult. Love and happiness is whats important.
John and Eryka (16 hours ago)
I’m 60 my girlfriend is 30 works great no viagra
gavin Reid (20 hours ago)
Age is not a major issue in USA. Thousands of child brides in states with no minimum age of marriage.
BrandonSeattle (1 day ago)
Age matters for marriage. I can't marry a chick over 35. 36 and older I can date and have fun, but I need to give my dad a grand kid. I'm already over 40.
JAMES KEMPER (1 day ago)
I wouldnt have a gap more than 10 years apart and thats pushing it
06tlee (2 days ago)
I'm 30 divorced and 2 kids. I've been talking to girls 18-21 and they are the most stubborn and picky ever. I know that they're still young and can find someone better without kids or married before...I know I know....smh
john silcox (2 days ago)
To people saying that age don't matter your fools . Different maturity levels blah blah blah . So age does matter
Bruce G. (2 days ago)
I married a Romanian woman 24 years my junior. We had a wonderful relationship for 6 years; we made love almost every night. But it turned out that money was her true love and she left to go to California to seek her fortune. Sadly, it hasn't happened for her.
karin Odendaal (2 days ago)
It never had anything to do with anyone.
LadyAnne (2 days ago)
You can be the parent.. 😊 .. Fine with me. . You are wiser in some things. I am wiser IN others. .i think we would be wonderfully happy.
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
i will never understand a young person marrying old young women marry for $$$$$$$ it is NOT LOVE youth only comes once in a lifetime NEVER EVER AGAIN
Aidah Abd Ghani (3 days ago)
Age really make no difference in relationship.But for me the woman should not be older than the man.Not because he is immature or not wise.It is true if the age difference is very big like 20 yrs.How do you think this older lady is going to function normally with a young man who is 20 yrs her junior.Just my humble opinion.
DesertStateInEu (4 days ago)
The max age difference shouldnt be more than 7-8 years, it can be bigger in special cases if 2 people are in love, but Ive unfortunately seen alot of pedos in my country's army that make all kinds of excuses to why it would be okay to have a relationship with a girl 15-20 years younger. On top of this most of these assholes already are in a relationship or have a family. The ideal is definitely if you find a partner who is within that 7-8 year range in difference.
KLRJUNE (6 days ago)
To be wise and smart you must have first been an ignorant fool and all young people are ignorant fools. It can't be helped, it's just part of being young. Learning and wisdom is for the old and it is the job of the old to teach the young to pee on the electric fence because ... that'll learn ya'.
George Eads (7 days ago)
I believe that age may be a factor to consider but I do not think that age should be a reason not to have a relationship.
great listener (14 days ago)
my experience is in age gap relationships is that the man should be the older of the two for better outcome.
E4 Eagle (15 days ago)
I am 5 and my gf 2 . My parents says my gf is under half my age so I shouldn't date her. Please help.
Bill Brown (16 days ago)
My wife of 30 years died 15 years ago at age 72. She was 12 years older than me. I began shopping for a new mate at age 62, after the 2 year grieving process. After meeting nothing but "gold digging hoes" for 10 years I decided to go online where I found a cute Filipina age 25 with no kids and a college degree. I brought her here on the "K-1 FIANCEE VISA" and married her 4 years ago. She is my FOURTH and by far the best wife I've ever had. Briefly, she is 100% opposite in every way from the MURCAN "skanks" I had met the previous 10 years. Shes 5', 95# with "all the right stuff in all the right places". Shes VERY funny, HAPPY, non-bossy or religous, smart, sexy, athletic, great cook and housekeeper, NON materialistic or shallow and we are "soul mates". To this day she has yet to ask me for anything! But of course I do spoil her. I asked her how come she would be interested in "an old fart like me" before she got here to the states and her answer was: "Guys my age are losers that only want to play, I am seeking a mature, educated, successful WHITE man who has his act together and is ready to marry". She told me she was "never interested in Filipino dudes but they admired her". She is a very MATURE and wise lady for her age and we both feel it was a "miracle" we found each other. L/T RELATIONSHIPS are all about COMPATIBILITY and we are blessed to have this. What we find funny is when we are out and about, young dudes will eyeball fok her sometimes even though she dresses conservatively and FUGLY OLD MURCAN SKANKS will give us the SKUNK EYE which I find to be HILARIOUS.
Fanny Real (16 days ago)
What about 18 & he’s 28
Edward Sturney (16 days ago)
I am a 76 year old man about t marry a 43 year old lady. We have been dating for about a year and a half. And we love each other very much. She lost her husband about 8 years ago. She wants to have 2 more children by me (has names picked out already for a boy and a girl. Shhe had a son from her previous marriage. We have discussed this many times. Any comments about this relationship. I do know that the last year plus has been the happiest of my life. Neither of us can't wait for the wedding day to come. Her son is in his late 20's + and he and his girlfriend have both given us their blessings. Comments would be appreciated .
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
dont die on your wedding nite
SaintTrinianz (16 days ago)
I’m appalled at the number of young guys who think they want to make it with an older woman! My initial response is “WHAT are they thinking?”But of course, they are NOT thinking. When a young man is aroused, he will f*ck anything. This is why I cannot be flattered by their attention. In a best case scenario, such a union would have the stability of a neutrino. Still, if I were into fly-by sex, I would choose the sweet young thing every time! I am rarely aroused by men my age. Freedom and celibacy have brought me true happiness.
Cindy C. (17 days ago)
Why is this such and issue? I think if both are mature people why should what others think even matter? We do have a lot of problems with perception of what is considered better but it's really the couple who ultimately decide what really matters to them. I do understand his point on whether they must come to decide if they want a woman of child bearing age. There is something freeing about not worrying about surprise pregnancy when and older woman. And of course not worrying about hormonal issues once you pass the monthly cycle. There are advantages just depends on what is important to the couples.
Claire Marie Jimenez (1 month ago)
My parents have a 17 year difference in age
Tim Randall (1 month ago)
It depends on those involved
broken condum (1 month ago)
What if a 18 year old boy is with a 26 year old women
Venom (2 months ago)
My wife is 15 year older than me love her so much and she loves me I am 27 she’s 42 age is just a number.
Jeff Mendoza (2 months ago)
We already know the issues. What i came here for are solutions and advice. What the fuck is this shit.
Bigloltea Big (2 months ago)
Yeah I was 11 years old when I met my 23 years old gf (yes I'm gay)
Anime Trash (2 months ago)
Three years isn’t much right? My crush is younger :(
insane_ fobfan (1 day ago)
I was 11 when I dated a 14 year old in my band class for a little over a month. Then his grandpa made us break up saying we were too young with too large on an age gap 😑
Ty dye (3 months ago)
Im 17 and my boyfriend is 27. I dont understand why people have such a hissy fit about it. We're both really happy. We tried dating once and he thought i wasnt mature enough for a relationship with him so we broke up. We recently got back together and we both know that ive matured enough.
Lizzy Hale (3 months ago)
I’m 19 and my man is 32 and I’m in love with him and so is he for me. He is going to collage right now since he was in the military for 10 years so we are at about the same point in our life career wise. And he has told me many times he didn’t want kids till he is in is very late 30’s so by then I would be 25 and would might think about having kids at that age for myself. Other than that we have never fought once or had any arguments regulating from the age difference ever.
Cool like That (4 months ago)
What about 29 yr old man, 44 yr old smoking hot female. I want kids. She's 44 with a 18 yr old. She wants more kids too.
Corrie Scrivener (17 days ago)
its fine
Elizabeth Timothy (1 month ago)
Cool like That Go for it as long as you agreed on all important issues even if you have some differences. Talk about core as well as little things, be open and honest with each other. It can be done. I was 43 when I met my husband who was 31, I wasn't looking for relationship but somehow it happened and we just clicked as we have similar views on almost everything to the extent it was scary, even when I raised the issue of not being able to give him children as an excuse to not be together, which I won't want him to miss out on, he just said adoption or even fostering he's all for it. We got married 14mnths after and we were ecstatic as I got pregnant naturally ,gave birth at 44,45 and the twins arrived at 47. I know I am lucky first for finding the man for me. Don't pass it on the best thing in life, to find someone to love and who love you back.
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
Guys what do you think of this. 21 year old girl and 15 year old boy?
Yassine Med (4 months ago)
Most girls dont like dating guys who are younger than them,when u ask them why they tell you he's not mature and stuff,well what u dont know is that age and maturity are not necessarly related.A 16 yold can be more reasonable and mature than a 30 yold
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
Yassine Med well I'm 21 and like someone who is 15. I thought he was 18 though.
danny McBrown (4 months ago)
I'm 24 and my girl friend is 35
666 666 (3 months ago)
danny McBrown thats sexy i love the older woman odor
AOE Lockdown 2014 (4 months ago)
Im 14 and my girlfriend is 16, any thoughts? ._.
macey (5 months ago)
I'm 15 and I guy idk if I like is 18 is that ok?
fadi azzam (5 months ago)
Age is matter quick example the energy and interest, me personally I did that and I do regret it
Elizabeth Timothy (1 month ago)
fadi azzam compatibility and not age you mean? I could be the same age but your energy level are polar opposite and your views/ taste are different. That is why you might not date/ be attracted to all your classmate who are your age mate.
Ian Naylor (5 months ago)
my crush wont even date me just because we're 2 years apart.
Lexy Gonzalez (6 months ago)
To me age gaps matter how big the age gap is. I don't care if my friends date someone 29 years older than them it's there choice but for me I wouldn't the youngest of date would be 3-4 years and oldest 5 but that's it . I don't care if there my true love or anything that my limit.
silvslim (6 months ago)
Parentification can happen in all relationships regardless of age. It is one of the things that annoyed me with some of my friends is watching them parent their partner. I learned from watching them not to do it to my partner.
Jessica Stewart (7 months ago)
I'm a 21 year old woman, and my partner is 34 (we have a 13 year age gap, for those bad at math lol). Let me tell you people out there questioning it; IT'S FUCKING HARD. We have neighbors that call him a child molester and a predator, and I am looked at by others as a gold digging whore. my family is on the verge of disowning me because they are so disgusted by it, and his friends feel uncomfortable being around us. My old friends (not my friends anymore) called me stupid, said I had "mad daddy issues" and once again, my man was called a molester. It will never be easy, people will treat you like garbage. Even now as I am having his child, people question my intentions. I just love the man, and he loves me!!!! We are happy together, and so proud of our little boy together, especially since we're both first time parents. I just want people coming here with questions to know, it's damn rough, but if you can push through all the bs it's worth it to be with the one you truly love. But definitely prepare yourselves for the onslaught.
Shan Chie (8 months ago)
Is 9 years gap too big?
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
yes
butterflyeffect (9 months ago)
I've been having amazing sex with a woman who's 17 years older than me. I'm 23 so do that math playboy! Honestly, I would never imagine this happening to me. I'm one lucky mother fucker no pun intended! I think this will go down as the best sex I've ever had!
nessi (10 months ago)
A thirteen year old likes me and I'm not going to lie but I kind of like him too and I'm 16.. Is that wrong
Chyntia Natasya (7 months ago)
Nessi S. nope, not at all :)
Baby Cheesa (10 months ago)
I'm 45 he's 65. Works just fine 🇨🇦
Pérez Soriano (10 months ago)
Andy snatched me when I was 16. He claims that he is 7 years older than me, but he tells me movies from the 80s. I'm 18 now & not so sure anymore
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
LEAVE
Archangel Zerachiel (11 months ago)
I'm 21 and married to a 40 year old woman if you love each other go for it your in a relationship to make yourself happy not the world lol
Lexiecorn (11 months ago)
I don't think age matters.
Scottie1040 (11 months ago)
1/2 your age plus seven seems to be the common rule.
Anna Medina (1 year ago)
Is 15 years too much?
Rosa Luv (1 year ago)
I'm 21 and my bf is 33 is that too much of an age gap?
Corrie Scrivener (3 days ago)
everyone has their own ideas on the best age gap and thats fine . but in a nice way of saying this. date who u want as long as there both happy .people got to live there own lives and we should let them . i like a age gap in my Relationships dating people my age gets a bit boring we have to much in common. to me thats boring .
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
too much age gap only young once
Corrie Scrivener (17 days ago)
Linda Lowther is really not i date women as old as 50 im 24
Linda Lowther (4 months ago)
its pushing it....maybe right at the edge of being OK.  there could be problems later on but I don't know..i guess 12 yrs could be OK.
Marie (1 year ago)
Nope, as long as you are happy and its legal you are good to go!
Kelp Me (1 year ago)
Is it ok to date someone 3 years older than me?
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
yes okay
ciguana 2mlgprovideo (4 days ago)
Tony Kolbas could you explain why do you disagree?
Tony Kolbas (4 days ago)
ciguana 2mlgprovideo I totally disagree with you.
Tony Kolbas (4 days ago)
Kelp Me I think that's a stupid question. Sorry but three years is not any kind of an age Gap.
ciguana 2mlgprovideo (1 month ago)
Its okay as long if she or he is not 20 years older
ᄏᄏ ᄏᄏ (1 year ago)
Is a 5 year age gap big?
Eyee gee (1 year ago)
Trinity Velasquez nooooo way
Kaw tar (1 year ago)
19 years of difference is that okay ? 20-39
Marie (1 year ago)
No, but at 39 that person won't be able to have babies if she is the older partner. But other then that be happy!
Michael Goth (1 year ago)
I'm 15 and in love with a 25 year old....been together 11 months.....this wrong????
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
wrong are you mentally ill
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
Ki The greatest how about 15 year old guy with a 21 year old girl? No sex in the relationship? What do you think?
Vivian Mellon Nelson (5 months ago)
Ki The greatest To be honest my parents are ten years apart and yet they still love each other. If my parents can be together even though they have an age gap, then I can do it too with Daniel. My parents don't even know about me and him and one day, I asked my parents, "So hypothetically speaking, if I ever have a guy that's ten years apart from me, how would you guys react?" And you know what they said? They said that it's ok, as long as he's treating you right and your happy. Well for the next couple of years, until I'm 18, me and breezy's love is forbidden. By my family of course and I've only told two people that I've trust about me and Daniel and they're both ok with it!
Ki The greatest (5 months ago)
melody music he should be in jail. Period. You parents don't care enough about you to end this relationship
Vivian Mellon Nelson (5 months ago)
Ki The greatest The guy that I love isn't a jerk or anything. He's sweet, kind, funny, and he hasn't done nothing bad to m once we got together. Me and him have been together for nine months and he had bad past gfs because all of those girls hated him for who he is and I'm the only girl he truly loves because I'm staying with him because I truly love him. I think you hate it because a, you don't understand or b, you just hate it and it disgusts you. I respect your opinion if you don't like it and I hope you can respect my opinion too. 😏 And besides I HATE guys my age. Because a, they don't know what they want, b, they only like girl's who are either skinny and troubled cuss-worthy. I'm 16 and I don't cuss in front of other people, only under my breath. I also hate guys because a, they judged me for how I act and b, for what I love and care about and it's My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic and other cartoons.
They will die soon and you get paid $$$$$$$$$$, best reason of all for a age gap relationship.
danny preston (1 year ago)
I'm 18 and I'm in a relationship with a 34 year old woman. We both love each other and we can't ask for any one better. IS ARE RELATIONSHIP OK???
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
Marie are you still together?
Marie (1 year ago)
My boyfriend is almost 18, and I'm 29 we are almost one year together...as long as you are happy and it is legal GO for it, dont keep anyone from your happiness. Just remember if you want babies, don't wait to long at 34 she is reaching her limit for having babies.
How about a ten year age gap is it okay?
Flor Ferreyra (1 year ago)
13 y/o dating 16 y/o.. Any opinions?
Marie (1 year ago)
I think the age difference could be a problem at 13 they really are a child...at 16 you begin to become more adult like so no I wouldn't encourage it...
Marcus Davis Jr. (1 year ago)
Flor Ferreyra I got the same problem man...
Tenright77 (1 year ago)
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Sarasmad (1 year ago)
I'm 19 and I like a 34 year old
Lololo Da (1 year ago)
15 yo girl with 30 yo man. what do u think??
Tony Kolbas (13 hours ago)
It is illegal. He could go to jail
Linda Lowther (1 day ago)
oh geez its obviously a troll
Janie Garces (1 day ago)
This is a yr old comment but I hope this 15 yr old child got over her infatuation with this 30 yr old man. This young woman deserves to be with people her own age. She has no life experience an is naive to everything that is this world. She is gullible, as young girls are at this age to men. No man or young man should be around ladies at this age any older than 17. A 30 yr old is a man not a young boy, if she loses her virginity it should not be to a man. If she were atleast 21 or better yet in her twenties that would be more to her advantage. The only time people should be concerned about age difference is when it involves Men or Women who are taking advantage of a child and this is when the adults have to intervene. ✌
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
sick sick get a LIFE
Linda Lowther (1 month ago)
Harmony it is entirely normal to have crushes on older men at your age. However, if either of you were to act on your attraction, it would be psychologically harmful for you in the long run. You cannot see it now, but trust me.
Aeryon Animates (1 year ago)
I'm 18 and she's 32, opinions?
+Allapattahgoon I'm saying that that person is already old enough to make their own decisions. It could be better if the person was 21 or more, because when we are younger we don't know many things and we can be less responsible because we are growing up, but that depends of the person. And that also as to do with the law. If two people are more than 18, it's not a crime. (in some countries) But in my previous message I was saying that if that person is more than 18 it will not became a problem with the police, so in that side is fine. But what they and their families and their friends think is their problem and I don't know that. As I don't know the person I say that that person can date the other woman because they are both adults according to the law. But I don't know them and I don't know what they think. And you said that someone said to me that 18 is "aldut". As I said before: According to the law it's fine. BUT it doesn't really means that that person can be responsible, well-mannered and knows many things. Because a 13 years old can be more responsible than an 18 years old. It always depends of the person. But the person who asked if their relationship was fine because he's 18 and she's 32, the normal answer would be "yes" (and give a reason) or "no" (and give a reason) I couldn't say "Well, that depends..." and then make lots of personal questions... So...I hope you understood what I mean now. I know what you thought because I didn't say many things in the other message but in this one I said more things so I really hope we are fine... (I didn't say anything to offend on purpose and I also didn't want to say that you are wrong because I agree with you; 18 year old doesn't really mean "adult". It does with the law but it depends of the person so that is kinda more important. But normally people with 18 years old lived long enough to know how life is (expect if they were born in a super rich family and never needed to know anything or tried hard to get something :v)).
It's fine because you're 18. You're an adult like her.
Abbie Koran (1 year ago)
14 yr old dating 17 year old .. opinions?
RetroBot (1 year ago)
It's not bad of an age gap so yeah you two can date.
Min Chan Lee (1 year ago)
Cant these old men with kids or old men, or men with kids just LEAVE ME ALONE?! I am getting pissed off already that sometimes I want to shave my head and scar my face so that they can just leave me alone.
RetroBot (1 year ago)
femanazi detected
C Meeks (1 year ago)
Min Chan Lee Don't worry. there is a day coming when men will leave you alone. you'll look back at it as the saddest day of your life.
dmaaaan123 (1 year ago)
What about 19 dating a 16 ? I'm kinda willing to wait for her because she's mature as hell
RetroBot (1 year ago)
That's good, you should wait for her plus the age gap isn't that bad.
Geeky07 (1 year ago)
I am a 16 year old male, I like this 13 year old girl (sounds creepy me tbh but just listen) she is very mature for her age, I often forget she is younger than me. In my eyes the 3 year age gap between us really bothers me but at the same time does not. We are in a relationship and have kissed only to go as far as making out. We talked about it and have agreed if we would like to have sexual relations at all it is better to wait till a later date. I'd like some input on this as we both really like eachother, just not sure how it looks to others, we have not told very many people yet.
RetroBot (1 year ago)
To me 3 years isn't bad man, and it's good that its not bothering you or her just shows how much you both love each other to not care about any faults.
Steven Boone (1 year ago)
unfortunately I have seen many people who have been forced out of relationships because of their age differences. most of the time it is either the girlfriend's parents who sees you as a failure or it is the boyfriend's parents who pictures the girl as a low class piece of trash. I understand that most parents want what's best for their sons or their daughters but they have to allow them to grow up and follow their hearts. never allow age difference to be a factor against you or your intended partner if both of you are happy with each other.
jamie wyatt (1 year ago)
is it wrong for a 14 year old dating a 19 yearo old
Miriam Elkinani (1 year ago)
jamie wyatt Wait until your 18. Personally I'm 14 too and when I'll be 18 I think 6 yrs will be the max for me. Not that 6+ years is bad, its just my comfort zone, and tbh, I think 5 yrs is perfect (at age 18) for now we should keep it as 2-3 yrs.
+Lololo Da Are you serious? =_= 15 years old is too young to that a 30 year old
Lololo Da (1 year ago)
Why??
+Lololo Da Yes. Very wrong
tiyjamir jones (1 year ago)
Is it ok to go out with a girl One or two years older than me
Corrie Scrivener (2 months ago)
no how der u date someone older then lolololol jk go for it have fun out there
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
Caboose how about a girl 6 years older? Too much for you?
Marie (1 year ago)
That is not a problem what so ever, my partner and I have a 10 year age difference and we have no problems either, but we are both really conservative and want the same things in life. More then a 10 year age difference is going to be hard though.
Caboose (1 year ago)
My rule is this, (but i'm not prejudice to other views) in dating age must be within ten yr age bracket whether older or younger. The way I look at it is, if the person ur interested was old enough to change your diapers when you were born you might want to think about it twice. The max I would consider though for myself personally would be maybe six years younger to perhaps three years older, that's just me at least
Steven Boone (1 year ago)
not much of an age difference between the two of you so there shouldn't be any problems there.
XANATOS (1 year ago)
Gentleman take warning by me, do not get married young. Instead devote yourself to making money, but do not get married till the age of 40-55 . Do not marry a woman with children !!!!! Make your money first, see the world, run with the bulls, go scuba and sky diving, get a pilot license , hit lots of hookers, after twenty or more years of this lifestyle you will probably be bored, I was . Time to start a family pick out a cute girl between the age of 18-23 who smiles a lot with a big heart and a tight ASS, and spoil her rotten. This has worked out very well for me .
Pearl Ford (5 hours ago)
Diana Rose. Women look better then men when older. these days it looks better with an older woman and younger man.I know a couple the lady is over 20 years his senior n she looks younger than him and stunning and cute. They devoted t each other. I always say if they both over 30 who cares!!
Pearl Ford (5 hours ago)
Rodzo Drizzle. MORON!!!
gavin Reid (20 hours ago)
You are so wrong. Women hit the wall at 30 , older men also have to think of children. Seek what makes you happy ,not what makes you rich.
Sean O (4 days ago)
You sound like a Darwin Award Contestant.
VariousPOI (4 days ago)
XANATOS i wouldnt call what you have family... its hard for a real woman to love a whore monger.
DJAkhtz (1 year ago)
Is it okay to like someone two years younger and I'm a guy.....does that make me a Pedo or something....
DJAkhtz (1 year ago)
Allapattahgoon a person who is sexually attracted to ppl way younger than them....and yah I'm school two years relationship gap is known as weird so my reputation would go down if i did date her :/
DJAkhtz (1 year ago)
+Leah Johnson What a coincidence lool I'm in year 9 and I like a year 7 😂😂😂
Leah Johnson (1 year ago)
No it's completely fine, I like a year 9 and I'm twelve and only in grade 7
Leah Johnson (1 year ago)
No it's completely fine, I like a year 9 and I'm twelve and only in grade 7
Alyssa Javier (1 year ago)
How about a 22 year old and 26 year old
That's ok.
Allison Buckner (1 year ago)
Ultimately it comes down to the legality and determination of the people in question. You can make any age gap relationship work, if you are both willing to work very hard to maintain a healthy relationships, unless it is illegal, in which case the law can cause obvious problems.
AtomiCycline (1 year ago)
is it okay? 20 years old guy and 20 years old girl?
ehsan sarlak (7 days ago)
Same age is best
Corrie Scrivener (17 days ago)
no how dare you HOW DARE U BE THE SAME AGE😂😂
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
😂😂😂
Linda Lowther (4 months ago)
I believe same age relationships have a very low likelihood of divorce. studies show 4 - 6 years age gap is best but same age is very good too.
D3an (5 months ago)
As long as your born in the same month and same day
TNTzGamor Minecraft (1 year ago)
10 year old dating an 14 year old,is that fine?
Kaw tar (1 year ago)
TNTzGamor Minecraft 10 years old areu fucking kidding me even 14 years is so young for that shit
Alexandra U (1 year ago)
Not at the moment. But when they're in their 20's, then it's fine
TNTzGamor Minecraft (1 year ago)
I agree+ahni elzinga
ahni elzinga (1 year ago)
no
PrincezzJazz (1 year ago)
is acceptable for a 18 year old girl to date a 29 year old man?
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
Marie but I read your other comment that your bf is almost 18 and you are together for one year...that means you were dating him when he was just 17 so why your commenting that it is not acceptable for an adult to date a kid under 18 when you did so. I don't understand 😐
PrincezzJazz (1 year ago)
Thanks
Marie (1 year ago)
+Magical Pessimist My boyfriend is 17 and I'm 28..we dont sleep together because we remain virgins until marriage it isnt sick as long as the other person is of free will and you have age of consent and the parents agree. Which in my case they do :)
jeyagi the poet (1 year ago)
+Leni Mikaelson What if you're like 17 dating an 18 year old, it's not sick right?
Marie (1 year ago)
+NovaWolf01 Here in my country the age of consent for sexual intercourse is 16 even if the other person is 30. 
Edge crusher (1 year ago)
is 30 yr old female, 40 yr old male acceptable?
(You don't have to say the genders.) Yes it is
GiantSandles (2 years ago)
It obviously makes a difference within the relationship but that's between them. I can understand it if someone's in their late teens and there's a big age gap, but once they're in their 20's they're surely old enough to know what they're getting into, and if they still want to enter a relationship with someone who's a lot older that's completely their business. If anything I find the puritanism around those kinds of relationships a lot creepier than the relationships themselves. Edit: Why are all of the comments from people in their early teens?
Anne Sophie (2 years ago)
I met my boyfriend when I was 12 and he was around 18. (we was just friends back then) now I'm 17, and he is 22, and he is such a fucking kid, when I'm around him, but in a nice way. He also told me that he love that he can be that way with me, because all his friends are so mature, which he also is around them. I think that will definitely change when we both get older, but we enjoy each other for now.
CLIMAX TV (1 year ago)
im 17 and the girl i like.....well she like me too is 12.....i feel like being with her but imma wait.....which is really hard😂😭😭
Anne Sophie (2 years ago)
+Princess 92 I know, 5 years is not to bad. It's more about that I'm still a kid, and he is adult. And I started catching feelings when i was 16. But yeah, its not to bad. 
Hidden Flower (2 years ago)
To me, that's not an age gab. My ex was 28 years older than me. Now that's an age Gap! 5 years is fine though.
lacey pender (2 years ago)
How would you feel about a 14(almost 15)year old girl with a 18 year old guy dating? He's already said he respects me enough not to try anything but a hug or maybe a kiss
Kaw tar (1 year ago)
Kielee Grace why they should not date under 18 because u will fall in love and u won't realize untill u guys have sex and u might get pregnant and that is a disaster and u might regret having the baby and also under 18 is still called a kid cause ur mind is not fully ready and u won't see how life is going and still have billion years to live and u will decide ur future with that person so early u will tell me that u love him i will tell u i loved him too when i was 15 but feelings changes darling trust me u will understand that after u get 20 or more
Kielee Grace (1 year ago)
is it ok for a 14 year old to date a 18 year old, keep in mind its long distance and been friends before... i dont understand why you cant date until your over 18, if your not having sex there shouldn't be a problem like wtf, i respect the law but this one is so damn stupid, if a 18 year old 22 year old or a 22 year old and a 26 year old ....is it not as horrible the older you get ? honestly your delaying relationships bcoz you cant handle the truth that some people see thru society expectations or fall for someone for there personality first bcoz most times thts what catches people... now answer whats the difference when we only have one life. laws make us scared to love.
0BleuFever0 (2 years ago)
Technically, it's an illegal relationship. It would be one thing if you guys were 1 year or half a year apart (like a 17 & 18 year old), but 3.5 years apart... Yeah :/
Catherine Elfrink (2 years ago)
Ok. My best friend is 19 and I am 11. I tell him everything and anything. People call me a slut and they call him a perv. I know I am not of legal age, but I am not doing anything more that hugging with him. We get judged a lot. I always say age doesn't matter, because in this case it shouldn't. Am I right? We are *not* in *any* kind of relationship other that best friends.
0BleuFever0 (2 years ago)
Age differences only become a problem in romantic/sexual relationships when one of the partners in the relationship is under the legal age (18).
Jennifer Thompson (2 years ago)
What about 17 and 28 we were friends for a year then we got together then by accident we got pregnant now we have a beautiful baby but we still haven't told our parents an advice?
Selia Ortiz (3 days ago)
sicko
Ki The greatest (5 months ago)
He should be in jail
Diana G (2 years ago)
How long has it been since you last visited your parents?
SixBeautifulGirls (2 years ago)
Age gaps are the worst possible things possible in a relationship. Disgusting heresy.
Hello, Domo! (1 year ago)
Min Chan Lee I feel the complete opposite, lol. Just cut off all types of contact with them. I have that issue with boys my age; I can't stand them.
Min Chan Lee (1 year ago)
I don't find myself lucky that old men are approaching me. Because, they are making me feel like I'm naive or foolish. When, I'm not! This is my life! If ever I'm gonna marry a guy, I only want him to be at least 5-7 years older than me. That's it! I don't wanna have a husband who is a decade or more than decade older than me because its no fun to marry someone like that. Old men just wants to take away young women's youth and make them their personal caregivers or nannies to their kids. I don't wanna be his caregiver nor his children's nanny from his previous wives or girlfriends, ok? This is my life. :D
Hello, Domo! (1 year ago)
Min Chan Lee What age of men are you talking about? God, I'd love to be approached by an older man. Consider yourself very lucky! If they bother you, just cut off all forms of contact with them.
RetroBot (1 year ago)
+Min Chan Lee guys that you're talking about are perverts, we're talking about men who actually wants to be in a relationship with younger female (with consent of course). Also if men are bothering you so much why don't you block them or report them?
Min Chan Lee (1 year ago)
That is if both the young girl and the old guy agrees to be with each other and has mutual feelings towards each other. In my case, NO. That's why I dont agree with it., These old bastards cant force me to be with them when I already said NO multiple times to them. You can't force love to happen. Forcing things to happen is not love at all.
Steve Carter (2 years ago)
The older person if you are referring to a man is supposed to be the head of the household. The problem is in today's society the man has become feminized and women no longer want to be with a man that takes control as he was designed to do. Very good video not biased. Just addressing possible problems without stereotypes.
VariousPOI (4 days ago)
Steve Carter its because men arent honourable and worthy leaders. If men had morals we women would love to hand over the wheels but we aren't blind.
Vi Haze (10 months ago)
I disagree, I think different dynamics work for different people. Just because some people find that 'traditional' gender roles work for them, that doesn't mean everyone else does. Personally, I don't mind a slightly more feminine man (David Bowie wouldn't have been sexier with flannel shirts, a large beard and a beer gut) and I'm perfectly content to be the 'head' of the household (I don't think there's such a thing, I think it ought to be a partnership).
Marie (1 year ago)
I agree, and as a woman who is 10 years older then my partner I tell you he has not have problems with leading our relationship, a man should be able to be a man and woman should be able to be a woman if you have that covered you have an amazing relationship.
DJAkhtz (1 year ago)
I agree
Country Girl24 (2 years ago)
I am a freshman in high school and I have a crush on a 7th grader he is supposed to be in 8th grade what do I do
Diana G (2 years ago)
Same girl,i had a crush on a younger guy too,only one year difference tho. If you really like him,i don't see any problem since it's not a big age difference.
Harley Brown (2 years ago)
I'm 22 (23 in march) I recently got into a relationship with a 46yr old women :-) we both connect so well, so many things in common and she has brought the best out of me; as I was (still a little bit) shy. We enjoy each others company and I've been at her house for 3wks straight 31/12/15-20/1/16 she has two kids both older then me by 1-2yrs. I'm happy and she is happy all that matters. She keeps letting me know that in a few years or so I'll find someone younger (my age) but that's the thing I don't want to, I've never been so connected with anyone else but her. Family as accepted it (afraid of what they were going to say) but no they're supportive of us :-)
iqra arshad (26 days ago)
Harley Brown lie
Hikmah Ramadhani Kail (3 months ago)
Harley Brown happy for u both
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
Are you still together?
Aww, that's really cute
Rodriguez Chavez (2 years ago)
hey ladies please can i have an honest. answer when is to much and when is acceptable a age difference relationship please give me a really honest answer can you really feel love for someone older than you thanks in advance.
Linda Lowther (4 months ago)
I am middle aged now but when I was young I was never attracted to anyone more than 6 or 7 years (max) older than me. I did try a much older man once and for me at the time, it was gross. I would say stay within 10 years older or younger and you should be OK. I know there are exceptions but to avoid problems later on, this is a good rule in my opinion.
Lexy Gonzalez (6 months ago)
Rodriguez Chavez I know this is old but I'm still answering. I personally don't care if my friend dates someone 20 years older than them it's there life. But I wouldn't if it was me the youngest I'd date would be 3-4 years and oldest 5 years but that it
Rodriguez Chavez (2 years ago)
+Kitty gladys that is awesome his a lucky men thanks for the answer
Natalie (2 years ago)
+Rodriguez Chavez Absolutely. Without a doubt. My family absolutely adore him as well.
Rodriguez Chavez (2 years ago)
+Kitty gladys but are u in love
Anton Sjostrand (2 years ago)
I think it's more of a question of maturity level. A 18 year old could be as mature as a 30 year old, and because of that may only find interest in older people.
KlassyJ (2 years ago)
If saying an age gap is wrong, that's bullshit. Everyone should be able to love who they want to! Who cares if your older than someone you love and care about? If you like someone, go for it, don't worry about a stupid age gap.
angelica merino (7 months ago)
KlassyJ yeah.. you are right! Me and my fiance was 40 years age gap but we love each other and happy together
Peter Delgado (9 months ago)
KlassyJ not being negative in any kind of way but what that person is 11 and the person is 26? That to me is a serious issue man. Wouldn't you agree? Cause if I have a daughter i wouldn't want some older man like that after my child or my child after that person.
ᴋɪᴍᴍɪᴇ CNF (2 years ago)
If equal gener relationships are ok (generally), why age gap relationships shouldn't? #LoveIsLove
Heidi Warner (2 years ago)
Ughh... My parents don't get how age doesn't matter . And my dad way older than my mom. I'm a freshmen and he's a junior, were only 2 years apart. But when u think about it when why does age matter if you really like each other. Why is it so important.
Heidi Warner (2 years ago)
Ughh... My parents don't get how age doesn't matter . And my dad way older than my mom. I'm a freshmen and he's a junior, were only 2 years apart. But when u think about it when why does age matter if you really like each other. Why is it so important. This really pisses me off.
Diana G (2 years ago)
2 years is the perfect "age gap",in my opinion
Seas of Bronze (2 years ago)
Two years is not an age gap.
Heidi Warner (2 years ago)
Ughh... My parents don't get how age doesn't matter . And my dad way older than my mom. I'm a freshmen and he's a junior, were only 2 years apart. But when u think about it when why does age matter if you really like each other. Why is it so important. This really pisses me off.
DisGirlsChannel (2 years ago)
I'm 13 years old and my Brothers girlfriend is getting this guy to talk to me but he just turned 16. He seems really nice and he is perfect! I don't think that there is anything wrong with 3 years of an age difference but my mom told me only 2 years the max. I'm mature physically and mentally as a 13 year old though. And I'm in 8th grade he is a sophomore in high school. So we he would be graduating high school when I'm a sophomore and 16 years old. Is this wrong or is the age difference okay?
Diana Rose (4 months ago)
When I was 13, I had a relationship with a 20 year old guy. I was young, dumb and in love. Just wait until you are legal to have sex.
Jess (1 year ago)
Now aged 20 and we are still together. I was a reckless and self destructive girl. I didn't believe in myself and thought I was too stupid to ever make anything of myself. Now I am a strong, stable and intelligent women studying at university. I have started my own business which is growing successfully and I am much happier than I ever hoped to be. All because he believed in me when I didn't and I love him with all my heart. We were born 15 years apart and guess what... it hasn't made the slightest bit of difference. We have a love that others dream for- so I don't even think twice about the age gap
Jess (1 year ago)
what?
DJAkhtz (1 year ago)
+Crimson Demon :/
Diana G (2 years ago)
I think you should give it a shot if you really like him. As long as he's not taking any advantage of you.
mysterychic1234 (2 years ago)
i think people should stop caring. As long as they are of legal age and they are both happy then who cares. Definitely not something worth dicussing
Chris Erics (5 days ago)
Sturnidae honestly a person with a so rigid mindset as you should not judge anything at all in this world, because it would just lead to fascism and third world war... with you out of the equation people would actually be free, literally. So stay out of people’s life!
Chris Erics (5 days ago)
Legal age? There is no place the same as the next... in some countries is 21 right in Turkey they are changing it to 12... in Scandinavia it is 15... but who you are as a person can vary A LOT between individuals between 12-21 ... so what is legal might not be the best way to judge if you are ready
Corrie Scrivener (17 days ago)
altho 16 is the age people can have sex and Relationships. until there both 18 its up to the mom and dad if they can be together. once your 18 u make your own rules on who u wont to date and yes age is just a number date who u wont
M. Strongsole (10 months ago)
Sturnidae May I ask then why in most European countries is the age of consent at 16 and at age 14 in many parts of Japan? Personally if the 2 are consenting and are genuinely happy and fluorishing with one another, I don't bat an eyelash to 16 and 20 or 15 and 19. Though to an extent I agree that when younger the largest boundary that is put up by people is the "maturity" difference argument. Personally if you're able to make whole-hearted conscious decisions for yourself you deserve to exercise your relationship without hindrance from the law. In some ways I respect 15 and 19, 16 and 20 relationships because it shows that the 2 people value growth and learning. Sorry for my rambling.
Fernando Sucre (3 years ago)
I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 46. What do you think? :)
Meme Patriot (2 months ago)
26 seems a bit of a stretch but hey man, you do you.
666 666 (3 months ago)
Fernando Sucre you are a granny fucker thats what up......26yr gap is extreme
Lexy Gonzalez (6 months ago)
Fernando Sucre I don't care but if that was me I'd never do that. But it's like ur life so...
Dustin Wrye (2 years ago)
+Denise Tram I doubt that. 
Denise Tram (2 years ago)
+Dustin Wrye Maybe he's not looking for approval from anyone. Maybe he's just genuinely curious about other people's thoughts pertaining to the whole age gap ordeal.

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